Adil itu redha

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Bismillah.

Almost 11  million people watch this drama. Malay, chinese, indian and others races watch this drama. But , I only got to watch this drama for 3 episode which is one ep in the beginning, in the middle and final episode. I listen to my sister story more than watch this drama . 

I am not really eager to watch this drama at first because Nur is so pretty. What if  Nur is not pretty, does ustaz Adam want to marry her? [Man always be a man . They choose the more beautiful girl, right?]  (This kind of thought lingering me, and make me less watch it. Insecurity detected.)

But, after 1 episode in the middle which is about "sup bunjut" makes my eyes excited to know what happen in the next episode. It has a good story line. Brave enough to speak about hypocrisy in religion. This drama have a line of 5 star malaysian actors such as siti nor khairiyah, azhan rani , syafiq kyle, amyra rosli and many more incredible actors. Each of them played the role right and make us want to throw our remote control to them. Plus, the cinematography is awesome :)

One of my favourite quote in this drama is my title of this blog. Adil itu redha. I always seeking to find the meaning of ADIL.. So many unsolved and uncertain things in my head.  I wish Allah take my soul early so i can leave this problem in  dunya. I am start losing my way from march until april 2018. Sometimes, i wish to be man (feminism thought detected).  And again, i felt dunya is not fair for me.

 But, Alhamdulillah . Alhamdulillah.

i have my seat in  Ramadan 1439 H. It was a blessing month for me. I found the right meaning of Adil. Especially about my wish to be a man. Astagfirullahaladzim. and Alhamdulillah i am a women. i found  Yasmin Mogahed said it on facebook:

"A muslim women does not need to degrade herself in this way. Compete with man or her friends. She has God as a standard.  She has God to give her value; she doesn't need a man here. In fact, only a woman can be a mother. And the creator has given special privilege to a mother. The prophet taught us that heaven lies at the feet of mothers. But no matter what a man does, he can never be a mother. So, why is that not unfair? "

Stop trying to find our worth in reference to men, to value it or even notice it. We are coming from venus not the same planet as mars people. Be grateful about what Allah has given to us, not what He does not yet give us. He is always be fair eventhough we can't see the hikmah behind it. 

Adil itu redha kan? Redha bukan benda yang melemahkan manusia. Terima bulat bulat, petak-petak. Tak. Tapi maksud redha bagi saya :

Mengenali dan memahami di sebalik sesuatu kejadian itu berlaku dengan kehendakNya dan meletakkan Allah sebagai tempat pergantungan utama kita agar kita boleh terus melangkah hingga ke syurga.  

Teruskan melangkah menjadi wanita solehah, wanita yang adil. wanita yang redha, wanita yang kuat tawakal kepada Dia. 

Allah is always fair.


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